Watching pornography together can be an exciting and fun experience, and in some instances, it can bring a couple closer together. Deciding on a genre or fantasy you are both interested in watching. Establishing what both of you are not interested in will ensure a comfortable experience. Ask, “What type of pornography would you want to watch?” Also ask, “What type of pornography would make you uncomfortable?” Never force your significant other to watch something that makes them uncomfortable. Don’t interrogate your significant other, and don’t be angry if they are not interested in watching pornography.
Ask your partner, “Is now a good time to watch pornography?” Check with family members to see if they are planning on coming home. Watch pornography in your room if you live with others; do not watch it in the living or family room.
Tell your roommate you need a small amount of time alone if you share a room. If your room does not have a lock, close the door and put a chair or large object in front of the door. This will move and alert you if someone is trying to open it. Getting caught watching pornography can be embarrassing, so make sure you are alone before you begin.
Whether you want to watch straight, gay, or group pornography, it is all available online. Turn off the safe search on the search engine you are using; otherwise, the pornography sites may not come up.
It’s ok to laugh and be silly while watching pornography. Ask your significant other if they like the pornography. Ask your significant other what they would like to do while watching the video, DVD, or looking at the magazine.
